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Defying Gravity

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Remember when we all said that Faberry wasn’t a High School relationship, like Finchel, and they would eventually be together in the future?

quimily:

Yeah, it starts like this

Remember when we begged the writers to just get them both to NY, single, as friends, and we would take care of the rest?

We don’t even need to take care of the travelling between New Haven and NY part, they did that for us, too!

That awkward unique moment when the Glee writers exceed our expectations.

(Source: faberrytho, via needssleep)

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In case you ever need to brighten your day: Best of Olivia Wilde's Twitter

Is it wrong that the only time I've been in the gym in the last month is to buy peanut butter smoothies? I try my best to lunge in and out.
A mosquito just bit my ass so hard it almost felt good. Except now I can't sit down without a hemroid pillow. #thanksmaryland
Wait I forgot- running smack into a blind man while texting - good luck or bad luck?
Auto-correct strikes again. My phone turns "fed" into "F'ed" which is awkward when telling my roommate I gave the dog his food.
Woot woot! Teen Choice Awards Nomination whaaaat? So awesome. Thank you guys very much. I'm glad teens like Dr. shows and not just porn.
I know I'm in new york when I find myself at Sing Sing at 3am karaoke-ing my balls off with a bunch of beautiful strangers...and pizza.
in a thousand years archeologists will dig up tanning beds and think we fried people as punishment.
AAND my favorite:
Glad the rapture didn't happen since I just got waxed.

Filed under OMG ahuuhahuahua olivia let me love you

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I thought the 'bazinga' was implied.: Self-Harm Survey.

SELF-HARM SURVEY.

1) How old were you when you started self-harming?

  • Younger than 4
  • 4-5
  • 6-7
  • 8-9
  • 10-11
  • 12-13
  • 14-15
  • 15-16
  • 16-17
  • 18-19
  • 20-21
  • Older than 21

2) How often do you self-harm?

  • More than once a day
  • Once a day
  • Several times a week
  • Once a week
  • Two or more times a month
  • Once a month
  • Several times in a year
  • Once a year
  • I have stopped

3) What method of self-harm do/did you primarily use?

  • Cutting
  • Burning
  • Hair-pulling
  • Scratching
  • Interference with the healing of wounds
  • Hitting or bruising
  • Bone breaking
  • Cutting and Scratching
  • Cutting and Burning
  • Hitting Head against walls
  • Binging
  • Purging
  • Starving

4) If You Self Harm What Sexual Orientation Are You?

  • Straight Male
  • Straight Female
  • Bi-Sexual Male
  • Bi-Sexual Female
  • Homosexual Male
  • Homosexual Female
  • Transgender Male
  • Transgender Female
  • Questioning Male
  • Questioning Female
  • Pan-sexual Male
  • Pan-Sexual Female
  • Prefer not to answer

5) Which Of These, If Any, Are Something You Struggle With Along With Self-harm?

  • Anorexia
  • Bulimia
  • Anorexia and Bulimia
  • Possibly EDNOS
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Various Psychiatric Disorders (i.e. Bi-polar, Borderline Personality, OCD, Panic, Anxiety, PTSD, Dissociative, Impulse Control Etc.)
  • Learning Disabilities
  • A Mixture of the Above
  • None of the Above

6) Do You Think That You (as An Individual) Need Professional Help To Stop Self-harming?

  • Yes, The Only Way I Could Stop Is With Professional Help
  • No, I Have Stopped On My Own
  • No, I Have Stopped On My Own Though I Still Struggle Often And Sometimes Mess Up
  • I Have No Desire To Stop And Therefore Don’t Need Professional Help
  • Yes, I Have Stopped With Professional Help
  • I don’t think I could ever stop with or without Professional help
  • Prefer not to answer

7) Are You Trying To Stop Self Harming?

  • No, And I Don’t Want To Stop.
  • No, But I Would Like To Be Able To Stop.
  • Yes, But I Am Not Doing Very Well.
  • I Have Stopped But I Still Mess Up Every Once In A While.
  • I Am Completely Self Harm free

8) Does Anyone Know About Your Self Harm?

  • No. No One Knows.
  • Some People May Have A Vague Idea Of Something
  • Yes, But Only My Closest Friends
  • Yes. But Only Some Of My Family Member(s)
  • Yes, Some Friend(s) And Family Member(s) Know
  • Yes, All (or Most Of) My Friends Know
  • Yes, All (or Most Of) My Family Knows
  • Yes, Most Of The People In My Life Know

9) How many years have you been self-harming?

  • 1 or less years
  • 2 years(ish)
  • 3 years 
  • 4 years
  • 5 years
  • 6 years
  • 7 years
  • 8 years
  • 9 years
  • 10 or more years

10) If You Self-harm, Were You Abused Or Neglected (either As A Child Or Later In Life)?

  • No
  • Yes, I Was Emotionally Abused
  • Yes, I Was Physically Abused
  • Yes, I Was Sexually Abused
  • Yes, I Was Emotionally And Physically Abused
  • Yes, I Was Physically And Sexually Abused
  • Yes, I Was Sexually And Emotionally Abused
  • Yes, I Was Emotionally, Physically And Sexually Abused
  • Yes, I Was Neglected
  • Yes, I Was Neglected As Well As Being Abused
  • Prefer To Not Anwser

11) Would you label yourself as emo?

  • Yes
  • No

12) Do others label you as emo?

  • Yes (they did at the time, and honestly, looking back, I think I would too)
  • No

13) What would you or others label you as? (chose all that apply)

  • Prep
  • Goth
  • Emo
  • Punk
  • Nerd
  • Hipster
  • Poser
  • Skater
  • Jock
  • Scene
  • Gangster
  • Other
  • I don’t do labels
  • Normal

14) What is your reaction when you see other people’s self-harm scars/cuts/marks? (choose all that apply)

Please select all that apply.

  • I want to get to know them
  • I wonder what they went through to feel that was a way out
  • I want to get as far as possible from them so no one will find out about my own self-harm
  • I will acknowledge them as someone who shares something in common with me
  • I would never even acknowledge them
  • Fear
  • Interest
  • Sadness
  • Happiness
  • Don’t really care
  • No reaction
  • Surprise
  • Relief
  • Jealousy
  • [I want to help, but I don’t know how.] 

(Source: helplessbystander)